Let's admit it - there is no perfect relationship, as there are no perfect people. No matter how you are in love with your partner, there are times when you just rub each other the wrong way. And that's perfectly normal. However, if you already are able to nip those relationship problems in the bud, it would make things much easier for your relationship.
The best thing to do is to first discuss the things that are the most common sources of disputes (this includes sex, money and kids) before these issue start to crop up. Because you have already talked about these, you already know how these issues should be addressed, which is difficult to think about when you are in the middle of a fight.
Now, let's discuss a few things you can do to prevent relationship problems from getting worse:
Communication is key. Talk is definitely not cheap when it comes to strengthening relationships. When partners talk about their thoughts and share what they feel with their partner, it opens up avenues by which you can forge deeper ties. Sometimes, because of the everyday business of life, partners fail to communicate. Schedule appointments by which you can talk with each other. And when you are communicating, set some rules for you to follow. Don't generalize - avoid using the words "you always" or "you never".
Make time to make love. Intimacy between partners is further established when you don't ignore the physical aspect of your relationship. Be conscious of what your partner wants and needs and do your best to fulfill these.
Agree about Finances. Work out a budget together - include savings. Discuss how monthly bills are to be settled. Give each other "space" - there should be a certain amount that each one can spend at his or her discretion. Be honest with each other about your debt and income. Agree about short-term and long-term goals for the family.
Organize household chores. Responsibilities around the house should be threshed out so that everybody knows what is expected of them when it comes to chores. The division should be fair and equitable, so that there should be no feelings of resentment cropping up. - 30413
The best thing to do is to first discuss the things that are the most common sources of disputes (this includes sex, money and kids) before these issue start to crop up. Because you have already talked about these, you already know how these issues should be addressed, which is difficult to think about when you are in the middle of a fight.
Now, let's discuss a few things you can do to prevent relationship problems from getting worse:
Communication is key. Talk is definitely not cheap when it comes to strengthening relationships. When partners talk about their thoughts and share what they feel with their partner, it opens up avenues by which you can forge deeper ties. Sometimes, because of the everyday business of life, partners fail to communicate. Schedule appointments by which you can talk with each other. And when you are communicating, set some rules for you to follow. Don't generalize - avoid using the words "you always" or "you never".
Make time to make love. Intimacy between partners is further established when you don't ignore the physical aspect of your relationship. Be conscious of what your partner wants and needs and do your best to fulfill these.
Agree about Finances. Work out a budget together - include savings. Discuss how monthly bills are to be settled. Give each other "space" - there should be a certain amount that each one can spend at his or her discretion. Be honest with each other about your debt and income. Agree about short-term and long-term goals for the family.
Organize household chores. Responsibilities around the house should be threshed out so that everybody knows what is expected of them when it comes to chores. The division should be fair and equitable, so that there should be no feelings of resentment cropping up. - 30413
